"When I asked other parents how they handle clothing, most said they steer their boys toward the boys section — even if they want pink or unicorns — to save them humiliation."

The school said the book, which the fifth-grade teacher had purchased at an in-school book fair, violated the state’s vague “divisive concepts” law.

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"It’s a cowardly and futile attempt to censor an idea," she said.

When it comes to gender identities, some parents are offering their children the possibilities of "both/and" instead of "either/or."