Unequal Housework Could Be Damaging Women's Health

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Women who worked 60 or more hours a week for over 30 years were at higher risk of six chronic diseases compared to men who worked the same amount of hours.

We've long known that the way couples divide housework can have a serious impact on a woman's career. For example, in her 2013 book Lean In, Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg advises women that unless their partners pitch in with at least 50 percent of the housework and childcare, they may not advance as much as they would like to in their workplace.

Research backs this up: One reason there are so few women in leadership positions could be because women continue to do the majority of housework and childcare even in households in which both partners work full-time, according to a McKinsey study

Now, a new study finds that women who work more than 60 hours a week are at a higher risk of several chronic diseases. And the researcher who found this connection suspects that an unequal division of domestic labor may be to blame, because the same risk increases aren't seen in men. 

 

In a study of a national survey data, it was discovered that women who worked 60-plus hours every week over three decades have triple the risk of early-onset diabetes, heart disease, arthritis, and certain kinds of cancer compared to women who work the more standard 30- to 40-hour week. They also had about double the risk of chronic lung disease and asthma.

These results are alarming enough, but are even more so when you consider that these are just the women who were diagnosed early, between the ages of 40 and 50. The study doesn’t reveal lifetime risk for these chronic diseases, which could be even worse.

Among men, those who worked more than 60 hours a week didn't have nearly the same risks for these same chronic and deadly diseases. The findings mirror past research that shows 10 overtime hours a week are linked to increased hospitalization rates in women, but not men, and an increase of five hours of overtime work heightened the risks of early death in women, but not in men. 

Housework could explain the gender divide

Lead study author Allard Dembe, a professor of health services management and policy at Ohio State University’s College of Public Health, suspects that the unequal distribution of domestic labor may magnify the effects a long workweek has on a woman’s health. When office and home labor hours are combined, it seems women are generally working for much longer overall.  

“My speculation is that women have to play a lot of multiple roles,” said Dembe, adding that these roles, like caregiving  or housekeeping, can contribute added stress that leads to disease risk.

"It’s less surprising that women who are then into their 50s and 60s are really bearing the disease repercussions of what’s happened during those early years of really working their butts off," he said. 

The domestic divide endures

Dembe’s study was conducted among 7,500 Americans who were born between 1957 and 1964, meaning their prime working years were in the 1970s and 1980s -- a time period in which more women were entering the workforce, but with little public debate about who would continue doing the work that keeps a household running.

The challenges those working women faced as they were expected to maintain traditional levels of housework were described in the groundbreaking 1989 book The Second Shift: Working Parents and the Revolution at Home. Author and sociologist Arlie Hochschild described women's working achievements as a "stalled revolution," because men's leisure time was still valued more than women's. This resulted in deeply unequal divisions of domestic labor among the couples she interviewed for her book, despite the fact that both spouses may have had jobs and career ambitions. 

Millennial couples are equal in theory but unequal in practice

Even though the risks of working long hours may not be the same for millennial families due to changing views on the division of household chores, Vincent Passarelli, a clinical psychologist who also consults with companies on corporate culture and wellness plans, pointed out that the U.S. is still in a “transitional” stage when it comes to domestic equality.

For example, a modern heterosexual couple may agree in theory that all household tasks should be split evenly. But despite the fact that men are definitely stepping up more at home compared to their forbears, the most up-to-date studies show that women still shoulder most domestic tasks -- especially when children enter the picture

According to 2014 reports from the Bureau of Labor Statistics, men who worked full time clocked about 8.4 hours a day, while their female counterparts spent an average of 7.8 hours a day at work. But the figures also showed that women spent on average about 2.8 hours a day on household activities and caring for other family members, while men spent just 1.7 hours doing the same. Women also spent more than twice as much time every day making food and cleaning -- and more than four times as much time doing laundry. 

“Proof that more needs to be done is evident when visiting the house of family or friends,” Passarelli concluded. "People still feel a conditioned response to first critique the woman of the house and not the man if there are dirty dishes in the sink or a messy table."

How offices can support workers' home lives

Corporations need to learn more about the deleterious health effects of working long hours and consider adopting new work schedules that emphasize flexibility, control over one’s hours and shorter hours overall, Dembe writes in his study.

And in recognition that his research finds these higher disease risks for women only, he suggested that “family-friendly” policies be created to help improve conditions at home. 

"On the one hand, reducing work hours can lessen workers’ stress and improve their health,” he writes. "At the same time, employers can also benefit from increased productivity and enhanced performance by healthy workers, as well as fewer accidents and errors related to worker fatigue."

Dembe, who focuses mostly on research that links work and disease, also suggested that businesses adopt wellness programs that communicate the risks of working long hours, as well as screening programs that alert people in their 20s, 30s and 40s about their individual risk factors for diseases that could show up in their 50s and 60s.

Finally, at the risk of oversimplifying things, Dembe has one more suggestion -- this time aimed at the home: “Get men to cook dinner, take care of the kids and change diapers."

Before You Go

10 Powerful Women On Raising Feminist Sons
Jillian Michaels, Trainer(01 of10)
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It’s most important to lead by example and show my son that women are just as strong, just as smart, just as capable. My son has an older sister, and two moms. Yes, he has strong men in his life, but he is surrounded by women. Sometimes he wants to do the things his sister does sometimes. He wants to wear our heels if she’s wearing our heels, he wants to have a doll if she wants to have a doll. And we let him. We don’t want him to think, “Oh no. That’s for girls.” We want him to appreciate that the things that are traditionally “feminine” are not less than, or off limits.

He’s four, so I haven’t thrown the word “feminism” at him yet, just because he can’t necessarily understand it, but it’s not something I’d shy away from in the future. We do talk a lot about equality. We’re a bi-racial family and we’re a same sex family. We make the concept of equality a very, very big deal in our household.

We’re also teaching him, right now, that no means no. So if I’m tickling him and he says, “No, stop!” I stop. I don’t keep playing. And I reiterate, “If you say stop, I’m going to stop, because I respect your boundaries.” I’m not quite sure how it will translate, but I think it's important that men begin to learn at a very young age that it’s OK for them to have boundaries, and that they need to respect other people’s boundaries. -- Jillian Michaels, trainer and author
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Emma Straub, Author(02 of10)
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I will often change words in books. For example, there’s that Dr. Seuss book, One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish, where there's a picture of a little girl brushing the hair of this funny creature, and it says, "All girls who like to brush and comb…" When I read it, I always change "girls" to "kids," because I don’t want my son to grow up to be a sexist moron.

In our family, my husband is far better at household stuff than I am, and I have a job and earn money, and I think my children will understand from day one that it's not really an option whether you're a feminist or not. -- Emma Straub, author of The Vacationers, as told to Cup Of Jo
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Feminista Jones, Writer/Activist(03 of10)
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It is important to raise a feminist son because it is important to instill values that include respecting the humanity, dignity, intelligence, and capacity of women. Feminism declares that women are human beings worthy of equal access to resources and opportunities and it is important for my son to grow up not only knowing it, but embodying it. I talk to him about the amazing things women have done historically and point out things we are doing now. When he says things that uphold oppressive social norms re: women, I immediately correct him.I know he picks up a lot of stuff at school, but I do what I can to counter it. My son knows who I am and what I do, so I think he has taken it upon himself to be more vocal and supportive of women. He is proactive in his approach to learning and picks women for school projects. We have great conversations about how to treat girls at school with respect. We talk about consent and respecting people's wishes. These are the ways I think I can raise a feminist son. -- Feminista Jones, writer, activist (credit:Getty)
Amber Rose, Model/Activist(04 of10)
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Having [my son] was like, you know what, I have to be stronger than I ever have been in my whole life, for him. He needs to look at his mom as Superwoman. I'm raising him to be a feminist. Women are getting sexually assaulted. I've been sexually assaulted hundreds of times, just walking through the club.

When my son goes to school and his friend calls a girl a hoe, I want him to be the first person to say, "Man, that's not cool. You don't talk to women like that." That's very important to me. -- Amber Rose, model, actress, activist, as told to People
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Lisa Belkin, Journalist(05 of10)
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I asked my boys about [whether they feel they were raised to be feminists], and both of their reaction was basically, "Yeah, sure. Why?" I've decided that's the goal, for it to be a no brainer. I was determined to raise feminist sons, mostly because I was determined to raise smart, caring, respectful children. That includes the very simple, basic understanding that all human beings are equal.

I would love to be able to tell you we talked about it explicitly, but mostly, it was just me walking the walk. The goal was osmosis. They saw me in a marriage that was a partnership of equals, doing work that I loved in the same way as any of the men in their sphere, and it was pretty clear that this was my worldview. So it became their worldview. -- Lisa Belkin, senior national correspondent, Yahoo News, author of Show Me A Hero
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Ilyse Hogue, President, NARAL(06 of10)
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We impart what we know. I am a feminist. My husband is a feminist. Our family benefits from the equal partnership we have tried to build in creating a better world around us both at home and in our work.

I'm raising my son to be a feminist because he will be a better person for it. Instilling the value of gender equality from birth means that he will support his twin sister, his friends, and his daugthers should he ever have them. Raising my son a feminist means he will be better equipped to operate in a world where women are increasingly and rightfully in positions of power, and he will relish the benefits that brings to everyone. It means he will never be threatened by strong women; rather he will be emboldened to be a better him when challenged by an equal of the opposite sex. Raising my son to be a feminist is critical to him being all he can be, contributing positively to the world, and working for all human rights. And hopefully, in the next year, he’ll celebrate the first -- but not the last -- female president of his lifetime! -- Ilyse Hogue, president, NARAL Pro-Choice America
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Reshma Saujani, CEO(07 of10)
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As my 9-month old son gets older, I will expect him to support greater inclusion of his female peers in the classroom, on the sports field and in the workplace. I'll want him to learn to have a broader sense of what it means to be "masculine." I will teach him that it's normal for a boy to dress up as Elsa for Halloween or for a girl to play with superhero action figures. I will tell him that "playing like a girl" means throwing like Mo'ne Davis or serving like Serena Williams. I will make sure he knows it is OK for boys to cry and help him redefine "strength" if his instinct is to clench his fist. In my household, we'll show him equity: Daddy can do laundry, and Mommy goes on business trips. -- Reshma Saujani, founder, Girls Who Code, as written in The New York Times (credit:Getty)
Geena Davis, Actress(08 of10)
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If you wanted to only show kids gender-balanced movies, you'd see very few movies. Only 11 percent of movies could be classified as gender-balanced. Fifty percent of movies are seriously imbalanced, meaning 75 percent of the characters or more are male. But my kids see every animated movie that comes out. I don't say, "That seems imbalanced, we're not going to see it." They watch the shows that other kids watch on TV. But I try to watch with them, and I have from the very beginning. It's really important when they're really young. I can be their media expert.

Parents can teach media literacy. I'd say, "Hey, did you notice that only boys are in that scene, or doing that activity? Don't you think that girls could do it, too?" Or, "Why do you think there are more boys than girls in that show. Is that fair?" You can comment on how female characters look, and say, "Why do you think she's wearing that if she's going to rescue somebody? Does that make sense?" -- Geena Davis, actress, as told to Working Mother
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Lori Leibovich, Journalist(09 of10)
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I started talking about feminism early on, probably when my son was 5 or 6. I explained it as plainly as possible -- that feminism meant that men and women were equals and should be treated equally under the law and in all aspects of society and culture. But I don't think it really resonated for him until we started reading books together about people like Amelia Earhart or Harriet Tubman and he was able to understand how challenging things have been for women historically.

I use the word in many different contexts, but this election season especially. When my kids ask me why I'm supporting a certain candidate (or not), I say "Because so-and-so is a feminist and believes in women's equality." When the hearings about Planned Parenthood being defunded were happening, I talked to both kids about why it was important for women's health, and why it was essential that, as a feminist, I support Planned Parenthood. They got it -- and wore the Planned Parenthood T-shirts I gave them.

Pop culture is a roadblock. So much of what my son consumes has subtle misogyny, shows unhealthy images of women's bodies, or just presents women as accessories. He's into old James Bond movies -- he loves the action and the '70s cheese -- but in almost every film the female characters are just bikini-clad babes without much substance. So we talk about why, and I try to give him some context. I talk to him very directly about how distorted media images of women tend to be, and I've specifically explained Photoshop, air-brushing, and plastic surgery. I really want him to understand that what he sees is fake, and that those "ideals" are damaging -- to his sister, to me, and to all the women he loves and respects. -- Lori Leibovich, editor in chief, Realsimple.com
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Anne-Marie Slaughter, Author(10 of10)
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I don’t think of it as raising feminist sons. Now I think of it as, we need to raise boys who are as excited about challenging traditional masculine stereotypes as our daughters are about challenging traditional feminine stereotypes. Our boys have to feel not that they are feminists supporting women, but that they are doing something for themselves. I was thinking about Emma Watson's He for She, and I'm all for that, but I don't think that's going to do it. I think it's got to be He for He. -- Anne-Marie Slaughter, President and CEO New America, author of Unfinished Business: Women Men Work Family, as told to New York Magazine (credit:Getty)

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