Here's Why Alan Cumming Gets 'Tired' Of Talking About Being Queer

"You’ve got to keep talking about it enough so you can stop talking about it."
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Actor Alan Cumming has remained one of the most outspoken queer celebs in Hollywood for years but talking about being  bisexual time and time again gets old, he told The Huffington Post. 

In a sit down with host Alex Berg about his new memoir, You Gotta Get Bigger Dreams: My Life in Stories and Pictures, Cumming addressed LGBTQ visibility and politics as someone in the spotlight. When asked if he gets tired of talking about being queer, he said, “Sometimes.”  

“It’s a two-sided thing. You’ve got to keep talking about it enough so you can stop talking about it,” Cumming said. “And I just think, it’s like being Scottish. You know, I get like ‘Scottish gay’ or ‘Scottish queer’ or ‘Scottish bi’ actor whereas like if it was just somebody else, they’d just say, ‘actor.’”

The reason he gets these “prefixes,” he said, is because there isn’t enough queer visibility to normalize his identity. He said it’s the same situation for any minority fighting for equal rights where issues have to be continuously addressed until “people aren’t bothered by it anymore.”

“People are scared of the other and I guess being the other is fun and I enjoy being the other and I enjoy being outside,” Cumming said. “But also, I get a little tired of [it] because the people that you need to talk to about [it] don’t really want to talk about it.”

As a queer face in Hollywood, “The Good Wife” actor also addressed the ongoing controversy of whether transgender actors should be cast to play trans roles. The most recent situation involved cis actor Matt Bomer who was cast to play a trans woman in an upcoming film called, “Anything.”  

Cumming praised the “blossoming of the trans world and trans issues over the last few years.” But he described the situation as “difficult” and acknowledged the different sides of the argument. 

“I wish there were more trans characters in general and I wish there were more trans actors playing them,” he said. “But at the same time, I don’t think necessarily it always should be a gay person playing a gay part and stuff like that or like a straight person playing a straight part.” 

Watch the clip above to hear Cumming elaborate on his thoughts and check out the full interview below. 

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Gay And Lesbian People Who've Won Oscars
John Gielgud, 1982(01 of11)
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Gielgud, pictured with co-stars Dudley Moore (left) and Liza Minnelli (right), won the Best Supporting Actor award in 1982 for "Arthur." He is generally considered the first openly gay actor to win an Oscar, though he rarely discussed it openly. (credit:Getty Images)
Howard Ashman, 1990, 1992(02 of11)
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The lyricist (not pictured) received the Best Original Song honor twice: in 1990 for "Under the Sea" from Disney's "The Little Mermaid," and posthumously in 1992 for "Beauty and the Beast" from the smash film of the same title, with composer Alan Menken. He died in 1991 of AIDS-related causes. (credit:Anne Cusack via Getty Images)
Stephen Sondheim, 1991(03 of11)
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The legendary composer, who was known as openly gay in theater circles, nabbed a Best Original Song award for "Sooner or Later," performed by Madonna in "Dick Tracy." (credit:Fred Prouser / Reuters)
Elton John, 1995(04 of11)
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In 1995, John (left) won an Oscar for Best Original Song for "Can You Feel The Love Tonight" from Disney's "The Lion King," with lyricist Tim Rice. (credit:DAN GROSHONG via Getty Images)
Bill Condon, 1999(05 of11)
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Condon won a Best Original Screenplay award for "Gods & Monsters." (credit:HECTOR MATA via Getty Images)
Alan Ball, 2000(06 of11)
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Ball, who has been called a "strong voice for the LGBT community," won for Best Original Screenplay for "American Beauty." (credit:Ron Galella, Ltd. via Getty Images)
John Corigliano, 2000(07 of11)
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Corigliano won the Academy Award for Best Original Score for “The Red Violin." He dedicated his "Symphony No. 1," which he wrote in 1988, to friends he'd lost in the AIDS crisis. (credit:Reuters Photographer / Reuters)
Pedro Almodóvar, 2000, 2003(08 of11)
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The out Spanish filmmaker won Best Foreign Language Film in 2000 for "All About My Mother," and for Best Original Screenplay for "Talk to Her" in 2003. (credit:Michael N. Todaro via Getty Images)
Dustin Lance Black, 2009(09 of11)
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Black won the Oscar for Best Original Screenplay for "Milk" in 2009. He wore a "White Knot" on the lapel of his tuxedo in an effort to show solidarity with the marriage equality movement. (credit:Gary Hershorn / Reuters)
Melissa Etheridge, 2007(10 of11)
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In 2007, Etheridge won the Academy Award for Best Original Song for "I Need To Wake Up," from "An Inconvenient Truth." The title of her award-winning 1993 album, "Yes I Am," is considered a nod to her coming out. (credit:Frank Trapper via Getty Images)
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Marvin Hameyson poses with canorous girls from his new musical smile about beauty contests. The other Gentlemen with Heimlich with pain director Lyricist Howard Ashman. September 09, 1986. (Photo by Michael Norcia/New York Post Archives / (c) NYP Holdings, Inc. via Getty Images) (credit:New York Post Archives via Getty Images)