5 Research-Backed Reasons Eldest Children Are The Best

But we're sure your mom still loves you all equally.
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Eldest siblings tend to think they're the kings and queens of the family. They were born first, so it only makes sense that they get the most attention and affection, right?

Youngest and middle children would beg to differ, but it turns out science mostly supports the eldest's bragging rights.

Numerous studies have shown that birth order plays an important part in development. How much influence it has is a point of contention among experts, but regardless, there is something to be said about being the oldest one of the bunch.

If you're an eldest sibling, take a look at the benefits of your birth order below. If anything they prove first is definitely not the worst.

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1. Older siblings might be smarter.

Research suggests that eldest children have higher IQs on average than their younger siblings. In a 2007 study of 250,000 Norwegian young adults, firstborn men had an average IQ 2.3 points higher than their younger brothers.

Researchers believe the difference is due to environment rather than genetics. Eldest children often "teach" their younger siblings, which can help them to better retain information, according to the authors. Also, as a family grows, parents have less time to spend with each child.

"Every time you add a child, you’re diluting the intellectual environment of everyone in the family," the researchers wrote in the study's conclusion.

2. They could be more responsible.

Forging the path for their fellow siblings means eldest children learn some serious responsibility early in life. According to Jeffrey Kluger, author of The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and Sisters Reveal About Us, eldest siblings tend to be the ones that focus the most on family loyalty and traditional achievement. As a result, they're often seen as more obedient and responsible.

3. They might be more successful.

Not only do eldest children perform better in school, they also might be more successful in the professional world. According psychologist and New York University adjunct professor Ben Dattner, firstborns are achievement-oriented and eager to please their parents. Research also suggests they tend to dominate their younger siblings as an authority figure of sorts, making them acutely prepared to take on leadership roles in the professional world.

Plus, their parents perceive them to be more accomplished. Go figure.

4. Eldest children follow the rules.

While middle children are thought to be the rebellious ones, oldest children are more likely to be rule-followers and stick to the status quo. 

"Firstborns tend to be responsible, competitive and conventional, whereas laterborns have to ‘distinguish’ themselves and create a specific niche by being playful, cooperative, and especially, rebellious," Belgian psychologists Vassilis Saroglou and Laure Fiasse wrote in a 2003 paper published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences.

5. They may be more conscientious.

In a 2015 study, firstborns were found to be slightly more conscientious, more agreeable and less neurotic than their younger siblings -- characteristics that could help them in the long run.

A 2015 Australian study found that people who were more conscientious showed higher academic performance. Conscientiousness has also been found to be a major key to success.

Revel in the glory, eldest siblings. It's hard to argue with science. But we're sure your mom still loves you all equally.

Before You Go

6 Things To Know About Babies
They Have A Sense Of Self-Control(01 of06)
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A 2014 study published in the journal Cognitive Development looked at 150 15-month-olds. The babies watched an adult demonstrate how to use several noise-making toys. Then, a second adult entered the room and angrily scolded the first for making so much noise.

After the demonstration, the babies were welcome to play with the toys, but for half of them, the angry second adult left the room or turned away, while the latter half remained under that adult's gaze.

Babies in the former group did not hesitate to start playing with the toys, but the ones in the second group generally waited a little bit and then played with the toys differently than they'd seen in the demonstration. This indicated that they were trying to adjust their actions to avoid the anger of the second adult -- therefore, they are able to resist their impulses and show self-control.
Foreign Languages Sound … Well, Foreign To Them(02 of06)
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Mere hours after their birth, babies can sense the difference between sounds in their native language and a foreign one.

Researchers in Sweden and Washington state studied 40 newborns wearing pacifiers that were wired to a computer. When the babies heard sounds from foreign languages, they sucked the pacifiers for much longer than when they heard their native tongue -- this indicates that they could differentiate between the two.

According to researcher Patricia Kuhl, "The vowel sounds in [the mother's] speech are the loudest units and the fetus locks onto them."
They’re Tuned In To Each Other’s Emotions(03 of06)
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By the time they reach 5 months, babies are able to sense each other's feelings.

In a BYU 2013 study, 20 5-month-old babies and 20 3.5-month-old babies sat in front of two monitors, which showed a video of a smiling baby and a video of a frowning baby. Then the scientists played two audio recordings: one of happy baby and one of a sad baby.

Upon hearing the the sounds of the happy baby, the 5-month-olds looked at the monitor with the smiling baby, and when they heard the sad baby audio, they turned to the frowning baby video. The 3.5-month old babies were less successful in matching these sounds and images.
Their Ears Register More Words From Mom Than Dad(04 of06)
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A recent study published in Pediatrics found that infants react more to words from moms than from dads. All 33 babies in the study wore sound-recording vests which revealed that they heard three times more words from moms than from dads.

A researcher from the study, Dr. Betty Vohr, told Time that "a possible explanation is that the pitch of mother’s voice or its proximity is more stimulating for babies."
They Have The Ability To Learn Sign Language(05 of06)
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Although babies generally don't start speaking their first few words until 12 months old and still have a limited vocabulary by age 2, they have the ability to develop an impressive mastery of sign language from the age of 6 months.

After noticing that the children of his deaf friends were communicating with their families with sign language from a very early age, Dr. Joseph Garcia founded the "Sign With Your Baby" program in which instructors teach parents and babies American Sign Language.
And, They Can Read Lips(06 of06)
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A 2012 study showed that babies read people's lips when they're learning to talk.

Researchers at Florida Atlantic University observed almost 180 babies at ages 4, 6, 8, 10 and 12 months and studied their behavior when they saw videos of adults speaking. The experiment showed that when babies are about 6 months old, they stop looking into adults’ eyes and start focusing on their lips to learn how to make sounds.

So next time you’re in the presence of a lip-reading baby, you might want to be a little more mindful about what you say.

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