8 Tips To Make Weeknight Family Dinners Easier

Advice from parents for having weeknight meals with their kids.
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Weeknight family dinners can be hard to pull off. Here, parents give their tried-and-true advice for making it a little more possible.

For many parents, weeknight family dinners can be hard to swing. Between kids’ commitments and parents’ work schedules, getting dinner on the table so you can all eat together is often a challenge.

There are, of course, innumerable tips for busy families to enjoy a meal during the workweek, as well as pointers on how to make the most of your dinnertime conversation with your child. But we also wanted to hear from the HuffPost Parents Facebook community for their tried and true advice for getting dinner on the table as a family as often as possible.

Not surprisingly, many readers avow the importance of meal prep, and there are some other gems here, too. Read on for more.

“Simple. We meal-prep. We decide our meals a week in advance. We take that extra time we would be wasting deciding dinner, and use it to converse and sit down. We eat together five to six nights a week. Sit down, at a table, no cellphones. In our house it’s an exciting thing to eat in the living room because it’s never done. So we make fun nights out of it.” ― Kryssy Elyse

“I have a 10-week menu rotation. On the weekend I pull out all the recipes for that week, see what ingredients we already have on hand, and throw the rest on the Walmart pickup app. I drive to get what I need for the whole week. I find that I’m much more likely to cook homemade food when I know what to make, have all the ingredients, and don’t have to make the dreaded stop to the grocery store. Plus, as the week goes on, you start to get hungry for what’s coming up.” ― Karen Miller

“I meal-plan for the week. I do one big grocery haul on Friday (grocery store and Costco) and then stop into the store again on Tuesday if we need a top-up of fresh stuff. I usually do one or two crockpot meals for the busier nights, and the rest of the week is cooked as I planned. My kids like to get involved, which I hope will develop into a love of cooking as they get older. And we sit at the table, no electronics, but we do have jazz on every night. We feel it helps with calming down and enjoying the meal together.” ― Adriana Leigh

“We meal-plan and shop over the weekend. Whoever is home and least busy around 5 takes ownership of dinner. If a kid has an activity the rest of us still sit and eat together. The Wi-Fi is off between 6 and 7 p.m. When I was in college and a working single mom, we rarely had dinners at home together. But I got up early and made a full breakfast and that was our daily meal together. :)” ― LaTisha Osborne Spice

“We plan ahead, as most are saying. Get what you can done early in the day ... table set, salad made, recipe prep done and refrigerated.” ― Kathy Stamey

“To get the whole family of five involved, each chooses the menu for one meal. The other two nights are a restaurant with grandparents and leftovers!” ― Kelly Holt Nelms

“I batch-cook on weekends and double recipes like chili, soups and sauces and freeze one portion for another night” ― Jaime Ross

“Crockpot meals, pack a ‘picnic dinner’ to eat together in between practices at the Y.” ― Lauren Bechstein Printke

Quotes have been lightly edited and condensed for clarity.

Before You Go

Family Meal Traditions Around America
Independence Day: July 4 Picnic(01 of08)
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One of the most exciting parts of the summer is the Fourth of July, the quintessential family vacation weekend. Many people have their own traditions, including wearing patriotic colors, setting off dazzling fireworks, and more. Clearly though, the picnic takes the American-flag themed cake. (credit:Getty)
Chinese New Year: Dim Sum Brunch(02 of08)
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Chinese-American families across America know that Dim Sum is more than just a basket of dumplings eaten on Chinese New Year (and all 364 other days, of course). This meal, which includes buns, rice noodles, tea and more, is better with all your brothers, sisters and cousins surrounding you.

If you are looking to throw your own Chinese New Year brunch, this collection of traditional dim sum recipes will help you get into the good luck spirit. And don't forget to wear red!
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Good Friday: Southern Fish Fry(03 of08)
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Popular in the Deep South, a fish fry allows families to spend time together while abstaining from meat on holy days like Good Friday.

To wow your family with the crispiest, tastiest fish, check out this recipe for a Louisiana-style fish fry. Holiday ham will be the furthest thing from their minds.
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Thanksgiving: Leftovers Lunch(04 of08)
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Is it just us or is the turkey a little juicier, the cranberry sauce a little sweeter, and the sweet potatoes a little creamier when you are eating them the next day during family lunch?

Though the Pilgrims (likely) didn't eat our traditional foods during the Thanksgiving feast, we are lucky that this tradition has stuck, giving us days upon days of delicious family meals. Check out how to make the ultimate Thanksgiving Leftover Panini here.
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Christmas Day: Feast of the Seven Fishes(05 of08)
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This Christmas meal, also known as "The Vigil," is very dear to many Sicilian-American families. Some even serve upwards of seven seafood dishes!

If you want to throw a Feast of the Seven Fishes like a real Italian family man, check out Mario Batali's how-to guide.
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Veteran's Day: Carolina Oyster Roasts(06 of08)
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During chilly winter evenings, many families in the south gather 'round the grill to shuck oysters and share stories. This coastal custom is very specific to the Carolinas, particularly during the cold months when the oysters are tastiest.

Looking to get your family in on this lovely Southern tradition? Follow these tried-and-true instructions for throwing the ultimate Richmond-style oyster roast.
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Labor Day: New England-Style Clambake(07 of08)
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This seafood extravaganza is a New England Labor Day special. The rudimentary cooking, which uses seaweed, rocks, and sea water, has been passed down from generations, following a similar path to the southern oyster roast.

One of the most important parts of a clambake is saying goodbye to summer with the freshest, most delicious side dishes. Follow these instructions for a corn on the cob dish that will impress all your family and friends.
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Passover: The Seder(08 of08)
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The Passover seder is a traditional Jewish meal, celebrating the ancient Jews' freedom from slavery in Egypt. Families gather from all over to partake in unleavened bread, symbolic bitter herbs, and of course, Grandma's matzah ball soup.

For an authentic taste of the European delicacy, try this matzah ball recipe from Manischewitz.
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